Two points that have been made here 1. The bottom line is that its money that talks and which JW man can provide materially on a janitors salary. Most of the JW sisters will tell you money is not important but when it comes down to it yes that is important to them.
2. Most JW men if they have been brought up as a JW are lacking social skills. I remember when I was a teenager their was a few guys my age that were not raised as a JW's and just being converted. Well the majority of us that were raised as a JW were not a match socially to these outsiders. The sad thing is it has taken me 40 years to develop social skills but it was only after I pulled away from the Borg. I still have some insecurity but it is a lot better.
Also another point with me is that most JW sisters want to change you tight away. They can't just except you for who you are. I am sure it goes the other way because when I was still in the Borg I would be very judgmental and opinionated. It has taken me years to learn what the word unconditional love means.
Will
"I am quite sure now that often, very often, in matters concerning religion and politics a man's reasoning powers are not above the monkey's."
Mark Twain